Articles tagged with: motivational

What’s your reason why you want to make changes in your life?

One of the things I’ve noticed that comes up time & time again with my clients is this; those that succeed at making the changes they want each had a big enough reason why.

It sounds terribly simple, but it’s actually quite profound.
 
You see, quite probably there’s something you’d want to change; perhaps there’s a skill you want to improve, a habit you’d like to stop, or at it’s simplest, a food you’d like to ditch, but you’re not able to.

 

So why can’t you?

Yes, I know there’s all that past learning and conditioning stuff that’s been going on in your life up until now … but why haven’t you actually DEALT WITH THAT … and made that change?

And for most people it’s because of that Reason Why issue.

 

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You’ve got to associate enough pain with staying on that well-trodden path you’ve been meandering down, or associate enough pleasure (or relief!) with how things’d be once you’ve switched from the old path to a new one.

Notice I didn’t say, How you’ll do it, because, frankly, that’s less important … get a big enough Reason Why and you’ll discover ways to make the changes you want that, right now, just aren’t visible to you.

It’s a case not of “I’ll believe it when I see it” but actually it’s really “I’ll see it when I believe it.”

So what’s YOUR motivation?
 

What’s that voice or feeling in your head, heart or stomach, that’s crying out to be acted upon that, if you did, would change the course of your life for the better … for ever?
 
I’d love to be able to be some small part of your journey and so if you’d like ANY help whatsoever reply below or contact me & tell me what’s your reason why & what’s stopping you from going for it … what d’ya have to lose?
 

Might just change your life!
 

Can’t say fairer than that, can I?

Let’s get your New Year’s Resolutions powered-up

2018 New Year’s Resolutions: If you’d like to start your 2018 resolutions and goal-setting the right way for a change, I’m offering a FREE Clarity Consultation where I can help you to get clear on What you want … and Why.

Once we’ve got a big enough Why in our minds, we can always find a way to bring the What into our lives.

Like to find out more?

You can PM me, or email charles@charlesstevensoncoaching.co.uk or call 07563674275 and we can arrange your FREE Clarity Consultation.

Let’s make your 2018 Awesome!

 

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Stop Trying To Be Perfect

Don’t Waste Another Second Trying to be Perfect …

You Came Into This World Awesome, Amazing, Unstoppable & Whole – You ROCK!

If you’re not 100% sure this applies to you – we need to talk & fast!

PM me – tell me why you don’t think your’re 100% brill already and let’s see if we can clear up some of that B.S. for you.

 

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